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You are a little more than collateral damage, as the large majority of guys slather, drool and stomp their way through the crowds, scaring off most of the nice girls that arrive on these sites, as evidenced by the interview above.
I only know of Brazilian women to be even more charming and open to foreigners. But watch it, if you are not accustomed to strong drinks you might end up outside of the club sitting on the corner trying to throw up.
Most are desperate in solving their economic situation and usually have a young boy they had at a young age. Have them clean and proper. If you plan to take the relationship to the next level, you need to be liked by the family, and not so much dad or mom, but grandma.